I could make out from the tone on phone that she was trying to avoid me. Already she had made up her mind to leave the office and was reluctant from her tone to welcome me. She told me that she is busy in some meeting and so will not be able to meet me in the office.
The fact is that she does not want to meet me in the person. She comes many times to our office and spends time with her female friends-if they can be called so, because these women does not want to condenscend and keep everyone at the proper place. I have so many times invited her to see me whenever she drops into our office but she never does that. If by chance, she finds herself in front of me, she makes very lame excuses, which even any fool can see through. I think she has nothing in her mind yet seems reluctant and may be wastage of time which is available in plenty with her.
But you cannot force anyone. Can you? It is impossible to fathom what is going on in a human mind. The whole existence of human beings hinges on the study of psyche of others. Some are more successful that others and are more succesful and affluent.